The best description that we personally have ever read describing the closeness of the spouses to each other is the Qur'anic verse which says: "They are your garments and you are their garments" Indeed, spouses bonded together by legitimate means of marriage are like garments to each other because they provide protection to one another with the married bliss, the comfort, the cover, the support, and the adornment that garments provide to all human beings.  Just imagine a journey in the winter of Alaska without garments ! Our spouses provide us with the same level of comfort, protection, cover, and support in the journey of our lives on this earth as garments would do in the Alaskan journey.

The Matrimonial relationship between the married couple is the most amazing of all human relations: the amount of love and affection, intimacy and closeness, mercy and compassion, peace and tranquillity, self-possession, sincerity, level-headedness that fills the hearts of the spouses is simply inexplicable. The only rational explanation for these most amazing of all human feelings is that: Marriage or Matrimonial is an act of God by which two separate souls come together under the guise of Nuptial knots.

Only our Almighty God in His Infinite Power, Boundless Mercy, and Great Wisdom can create and ingrain these amazing and blessed feelings through Marriage in the hearts of the spouses. In fact God Almighty is reminding those who search for His signs in the universe that these feelings in the hearts of the wedding loving spouses are among the signs of God.  Such truly and legitimately bonded couple by marriage show immense love and feelings of caring and sharing towards one another.

But God knows that the human heart is not a static entity, it is sometimes weak and at times dynamic. Feelings can and do change with time. Love may wither and fade away. The marital bond might weaken if not properly cared for. Happiness in marriage cannot be taken for granted; continuous happiness requires constant giving from both sides. For the tree of marital love to remain alive and keep growing, the soil has to be sustained, maintained, watered and nurtured.

The show of emotions is necessary to keep the marital bond away from rusting and disintegrating.

The emotions thus shown towards one another paves the foundation for a strong Matrimonial relationship.   The shaadi becomes successful and shaadmaani – the extreme happiness is achieved in the married life of a person.

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